I Started Dressing Feminine Because of My Disability, and, TBH, I'm Over It

Ever since I was a preteen, I've cared deeply about my personal style. Chalk it up to living in a small beach town, but clothing has always been my platform for self-expression and individuality, like it is for so many others. During my confusing and uncertain adolescent years, I naturally gravitated toward pieces I saw in magazines: lacy tank tops, fun headbands, and heels that made me feel decidedly grown-up. But it wasn't until a few years later that my feminine fashion choices would become a...